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• when we find something we do not like, it is good, because it helps define what we like.
• Getting to know ourselves and our defined boundaries is not always an easy process.
• I find it really helps when I am unhappy about something to ask why it is so, and what need of mine is not being fulfilled. Then I can focus on how to fulfil my needs instead of focusing on that "thing" and fuming over it, which is most unproductive.
• Ultimately, things even out. You get some, you lose some. You just can't expect to have EVERYTHING.
• And ultimately, what is most precious to me, what do I need most? You three, close to me, safe and happy. That is all I need, everything else is really just secondary.